The sponsored child ending child marriage
“It is unfair to deny us girls the chance to live our own lives,” says Sen, 20, from Vietnam.
Sen was 10 years old when her parents arranged a marriage agreement for her.
“Knowing that I’d be sent off to another family at a moment’s notice felt like having an invisible shackle, tying me down and stopping me from truly living my life.”
But as a sponsored child with Plan International, Sen found the support she needed to resist.
“I gradually became more confident, I was able to reach out to my peers and ask for support from my teachers and community leaders to help stop my marriage. It wasn’t easy, but finally my family decided to return the dowry and call off my marriage.”
Now 20, Sen often returns to her hometown and facilitates sessions that build girls’ confidence and help them understand their rights – sessions like the ones that helped her.
“I work closely with school teachers and local leaders to enhance the community’s effort to eliminate child, early and forced marriage.
“I hope my story can motivate others to take control and have agency over their own future.”
Educating girls in crisis
"In our communities, girls are raised to be housewives. They are subjected to traditions that have been there since the dawn of time. We want to change this by starting with ourselves and then teaching other girls and parents,” says Bintou, 23.
Bintou lives in Niger, one of four countries in Africa which border Lake Chad. People living in the lake’s surrounding area are in the middle of a complex crisis. The story of Bintou’s community is one of conflict, climate change, hunger, disease and displacement.
Bintou took part in a youth leadership project in the area run by Plan International. Nearly 300 young people received training in public speaking, life skills, advocacy and conflict management. Now she’s giving back, as a confident trainer herself:
"It's not about providing material or financial assistance that will eventually run out, but rather about enabling young people to become the actors of change.
"I am currently conducting a mentoring programme in three communities, to help other girls express themselves freely. I have trained six girls and I supervise them in training other girls. We boost these girls confidence. I tell them that if I can do it, they can do it too!”
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